Thomas Lee Unplugged: Insights & Inspiration

The past few months have been a delightful journey of connection and discovery since I became involved with the Moose. What started as an interest in community involvement has blossomed into something far more profound. It's been an unexpected source of joy to connect with so many incredible individuals, each bringing their unique stories and perspectives to our shared experiences. These interactions have blossomed into friendships that have grown into something truly special, resembling a family bond that transcends mere acquaintance. In many ways, these friendships have become a lifeline, a source of support and camaraderie that I didn't realize I was missing. It's a stark contrast to my biological family, which has become increasingly distant in recent years. The losses we've faced have cast a long shadow, creating a sense of disconnection that's hard to shake. It's disheartening to realize that even when family members live in the same city, they can feel wo...

There are certain singers whose voices are so unique and powerful that they remain unforgettable, no matter how much time passes. Think of Hank Williams, Sr., Elvis Presley and, for me, Patsy Cline. There was something special about her voice, a depth of emotion that came through in every note. Patsy's ability to effortlessly transition between high and low notes, combined with the raw emotion she poured into each performance, set her apart. Starting her career in the late 1940s, she signed her first record deal in 1954. In 1955, she released her debut single, "A Church, a Courtroom, Then Goodbye," marking her official entry into the music industry. Even 62 years after her untimely passing, Patsy Cline's music continues to resonate with fans of all ages. Her songs have a timeless quality, speaking to the heart in a way that few artists can achieve. She remains an icon, her influence still felt in country music and beyond.

While AI offers numerous advantages simplifying various tasks, it has also become increasingly problematic, particularly on platforms like Facebook. The social media giant employs AI to enforce community standards, including those concerning "profile integrity." This technology scans user accounts for suspicious behavior, such as fake profiles or spam, and can automatically suspend accounts upon detecting potential violations. Many users, myself included, have experienced unjust account suspensions for alleged breaches of these standards. Although Facebook provides a 180-day appeal window, many find their accounts permanently disabled without further recourse. Despite its claims of fostering connections, Facebook's flawed AI algorithms often disrupt these very relationships. It is essential to raise awareness about the risks of unwarranted account suspensions and advocate for a more transparent system that safeguards user rights. By sharing our experiences, we can collect...

I had a good laugh recently when a colleague described Patsy Cline’s music as being for “old people.” It’s amusing how music can be categorized by age, especially when such timeless classics continue to resonate with listeners of all generations. I enjoy the older music like Hank Williams, Little Jimmy Dickens, George Jones and many others from the 50s and 60s county, but none of them touch me in a way Patsy Cline. I’ve shared before how my fandom for her music started when I seen the documentary movie called Sweet Dreams. That’s where I was introduced to classics like “Crazy”, “I Fall to Pieces” and “Walking after Midnight”.  As time went on I slowly started listening to more of her music, fast forward to today in the age of Spotify, I’ve been introduced to so many timeless classics of hers, it’s almost like rediscovering Patsy for the very first time. As we’ve entered the Information Age I’ve been searching the web reading so much about her life, the start of her career and her d...

Here we are Mother's Day today, there's a familiar ache that resurfaces, a poignant reminder of the irreplaceable loss I experienced in 2010. It's a day that many celebrate with joy and gratitude, but for those of us who have lost our mothers, it can be a stark reminder of their absence. The world seems to buzz with tributes and celebrations, yet there's an empty space that no amount of festivity can fill. The pain of losing a mother is a unique and profound sorrow. It's a loss that permeates every aspect of life, from the mundane to the monumental. The memories we shared, the lessons she taught, and the unconditional love she provided become both a source of comfort and a reminder of what we've lost. Mother's Day, in particular, amplifies these feelings, as the world collectively honors the women who shaped our lives. Yet, even in the midst of grief, there's room for gratitude. I find solace in the memories of my mother, in the moments we shared, and in...

So, here I am, back to rant about the behemoth that is Facebook. After my original account got the boot a few months ago—thanks to the lovely domino effect of an Instagram hack—I thought I’d try my luck again. I mean, everyone deserves a second chance, right? I set up another account, hoping to reconnect, share some memes, and keep up with friends and family. But, surprise, surprise, it got disabled too. Seriously, Facebook? This time, the reason was something about “profile integrity,” which apparently targets users with multiple accounts. Let me tell you, I was floored. I hadn’t done anything shady. I wasn’t running a bot farm or spreading misinformation. I just wanted to use the platform like a normal person. The sheer frustration of being caught in Facebook’s algorithmic net, where innocent words or phrases can get you flagged, is beyond words. It’s incredibly disheartening when you consider how much we rely on social media to stay connected. Facebook, in particular, touts itself a...

I caught the Facebook ban again, and honestly, I'm just as clueless as everyone else about why it keeps happening. It all started when my Instagram got hacked. Since it was linked to my original Facebook account, that one got the axe too. Facebook gave me the whole "appeal in 180 days" notification, which did absolutely nothing. And let's be real, Facebook tech support is basically a myth. So, like many others, I created another account, thinking I could start fresh. Nope. The process repeats itself. It's honestly devastating that a single word, a phrase, or, as we learned during the peak of COVID-19, not much at all can trigger a Facebook ban. What's even sadder is that Facebook has become the main way for many of us to connect with friends and family, and they can just sever those connections because of a flaw in their algorithms. I'm sure it's just as frustrating for those I keep sending friend requests to over and over again. Hopefully, someday Fac...

I woke up this morning to a notification that my Facebook account had been permanently disabled for supposedly violating their terms and conditions. Seriously? My posts are all about my love for moose, my admiration for Patsy Cline, and updates about my daily life. It’s beyond frustrating that Facebook can so easily disrupt connections and friendships over minor infractions. I often wish my friends and family would ditch Facebook for platforms like Twitter, or that someone would create a new social media app to rival Facebook, just like what happened with MySpace. Remember how quickly everyone jumped ship? While social media has its perks, it can be addictive and often replaces real, face-to-face interactions. For now, I’m focusing on connecting with people through Instagram or Snapchat, hoping a new platform emerges that makes Facebook obsolete. It’s time for something fresh and less controlling, don’t you think?

Finding closure and taking responsibility for the past is a journey that can lead to profound personal growth and healing. Some time ago, I took the significant step of reaching out to my ex-wife after many years apart. The motivation behind this decision was deeply rooted in my desire to apologize for the mistakes I made during our marriage, which ultimately contributed to our divorce. I realized it was important to acknowledge that I had not been the husband she needed or deserved, and this acknowledgment was crucial for my own peace of mind. After I sent my message, I experienced a mix of anxiety and hope as I awaited her response. When she finally replied, I could sense her surprise at my outreach. She expressed that she had long since moved on and had forgiven me, viewing our past as just that—past. This response was not what I had expected, but it brought a sense of relief. My motivation for this conversation was not to seek her forgiveness; she had already found her own path. In...

Making choices and decisions is a fundamental part of our lives, shaping our futures and influencing our paths in ways we often don’t realize. Whether it’s a small decision, like what to have for lunch, or a significant one, such as changing careers or moving to a new city, the choices we make can have lasting implications. It’s essential to approach these decisions thoughtfully and with care. Before diving into any sudden decisions, it’s wise to seek advice and counsel, especially when uncertainty clouds our judgment. Talking to friends, family, or mentors can provide valuable perspectives that we might not have considered. They can help us see the situation from different angles, making it easier to weigh the pros and cons. Taking the time to evaluate the potential outcomes is crucial. Creating a list of advantages and disadvantages can clarify our thoughts and guide us toward a more informed decision. This process not only helps in making choices that align with our values and goals...

Holidays evoke deep emotions for me as I reflect on past celebrations with family members who are no longer here. The cherished traditions that once brought us together have faded into mere memories. The impact of loss is profound, and it often feels overwhelming. Each family member contributed uniquely to our holiday experiences, and with their passing, those special moments have diminished, making holidays feel like just another day. I still carry the weight of each loss: my grandma in 2002, my stepdad in 2007, my mom in 2010, my sister and dad in 2021, and my stepmom in 2025. Each of these losses has left a void that is felt deeply during the holidays. I remember the warmth of their laughter, the comfort of their presence, and the love that filled our gatherings. Now, those memories serve as bittersweet reminders of what once was, and it often feels like the joy of the season has been overshadowed by grief. I urge everyone to appreciate their family while they can, as life can chang...

Today, I find myself reflecting on the profound phrase “iron sharpens iron.” This saying, rooted in the Bible in Proverbs 27:17, reminds us that just as iron sharpens iron, our interactions with one another can strengthen and refine us. In a world filled with challenges—financial instability, health issues, relationship struggles, and employment concerns—this principle resonates deeply, especially in times like these when everyone is carrying their own burdens. At the Charlotte Moose, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing this principle come to life. It’s a place where people gather not just for camaraderie, but for genuine support. In a time when so many are facing difficulties, the Moose stands as a beacon of hope and community. Here, I’ve seen friends rally around each other, offering encouragement and advice without judgment. It’s a space where open ears, open hearts, and open arms are more than just phrases; they are the foundation of our interactions. With everything weighing heav...

Years ago, a life coach emphasized the value of journaling, encouraging us to express both our positive and negative thoughts on paper. This simple act of writing can be a powerful tool for emotional release. Keeping emotions bottled up can be detrimental, and I've discovered that writing, particularly through blogging, can be quite therapeutic. By sharing my thoughts and feelings, I hope to inspire others, while also opening the door for encouragement in return. Blogging offers a unique way for individuals to process and articulate their emotions, enhancing self-awareness and potentially alleviating stress. It acts as a therapeutic outlet, aiding in the management of anxiety and depression by creating a space for self-reflection. When we put our thoughts into words, we often gain clarity and perspective on our experiences. This process not only helps us understand ourselves better but also allows us to share our journeys with others. Additionally, sharing personal stories through ...

A new work week is drawing nigh, and the weekend is coming to an end. As I reflect on the days ahead, I’m hoping for a positive week with no trials and tribulations. Tuesday will be a day worth looking forward to, as I’ll be installed and sworn in as a trustee at the Charlotte Moose. This upcoming milestone fills me with anticipation and a sense of responsibility, but it also reminds me of the importance of staying grounded when faced with challenges. In moments of difficulty, I often turn to the Serenity Prayer, a powerful mantra that has guided many through tough times. The words resonate deeply: “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.” These words serve as a reminder that while life may throw unexpected obstacles in my path, I have the power to choose my response. When tough things happen, whether they are emotional or financial stresses, remembering the Serenity Prayer becomes essential...

📝When life throws its challenges at me from all directions, I find myself leaning heavily on the supportive community at the Charlotte Moose. It's a place that feels like a second home, where I can be myself, even on days when I’m not quite myself. The understanding I receive from everyone here is invaluable, especially as I navigate the financial stress that seems to loom over me like a dark cloud, and the never-ending grief from the loss of my dad. 📝Losing a parent, even though it’s been a few years, it is an experience that still reshapes your world in ways you never anticipate. The waves of sorrow can hit unexpectedly, leaving me feeling overwhelmed and isolated. Yet, when I walk into the 🫎Charlotte Moose🫎, I’m met with warm smiles and open arms. It’s comforting to know that I’m surrounded by people who get it—who understand that some days are harder than others. Their compassion reminds me that I’m not alone in this journey of grief and financial strain. 📝We’re all naviga...

Yesterday, in one of my many posts, I reflected on the family members I’ve lost in recent years. One lesson that we learn through life is that none of us is guaranteed our next breath; we’re always just one last breath away from death. This realization makes it crucial for us to take responsibility for our past mistakes, how we treated others, and the things we said. It’s important to act while we have the opportunity to express our sincere apologies to those we’ve hurt. While there may not be immediate reconciliation, we can find solace in knowing that we’ve taken a step towards making things right, allowing us to achieve a sense of peace within ourselves. Yesterday, I took that step by reaching out to my ex-wife to offer my apologies. I acknowledged that I had not taken my responsibilities as a husband seriously and had not been the partner she needed. Although there were various factors contributing to the end of our marriage, taking responsibility for my part in it felt essential. ...

One of my favorite musicians is John Williams, a true legend in the world of film music. His ability to capture emotions and create memorable themes is unparalleled, and one of his most iconic pieces is the Superman March. This exhilarating composition is famously associated with the Superman movies starring the late Christopher Reeve, and it never fails to give me chills. What I love most about the Superman March is how Williams masterfully blends brass and string instruments to create a dynamic and powerful sound. The bold brass sections soar with heroism, embodying the spirit of Superman himself, while the strings add a rich, sweeping quality that elevates the entire piece. It's a perfect representation of the character's strength and nobility, and you can almost feel the excitement building as the music progresses. Every time I listen to the Superman March, I'm transported to a world of adventure and heroism. Williams' genius lies in his ability to evoke such strong...

When I moved back to Charlotte last year, I made a decision that felt both sentimental and necessary: I chose to keep the post office box that my dad had for as long as I can remember. Sure, I have a mailbox at the trailer park, but that post office box felt like a special link to my dad, who passed away from Covid in 2021. Every Saturday after breakfast at Big Boy, my dad would hand me the key, and I’d dash up the stairs, excitement bubbling inside me as I anticipated the treasure of letters and packages waiting for us. Those cherished memories made me want to hold onto the box, especially since it’s been in the Winters family for so long. The laughter and warmth of those weekends linger in my heart, reminding me of the bond we shared. Recently, I found myself grappling with the idea of giving it up. On the surface, it made sense; I already had a mailbox, and letting go of the box would save me some money. But today, when I walked into the post office, armed with the mail forward form...

Happy Friday, everyone! As we wrap up another work week, I’m excited to dive into some delicious steak for our 4th Friday Steak Night at the Charlotte Moose. There’s nothing quite like ending the week with good food, good friends, and good drinks at the Moose. It’s the perfect way to relax and recharge for the weekend ahead! If you haven’t yet joined the Moose, I encourage you to come check us out! I’ll be more than happy to sign you in as a guest, buy you a drink, and show you what the Moose Fraternity is all about. Not only will you get to enjoy the great atmosphere and camaraderie, but I’ll also share information about our charitable efforts, including Mooseheart and Moosehaven. Mooseheart is a community for children in need, providing them with a safe and nurturing environment, while Moosehaven offers a beautiful retirement community for our members. The Charlotte Moose has so much to offer, from fun events like Steak Night to various activities throughout the year. And with a memb...

Happy Wednesday, everyone! We’ve made it to the halfway point of the work week, and that’s definitely something to celebrate! This evening, I’m super excited to gather with my friends at the Charlotte Moose for DJ Trivia. It’s always a fantastic evening filled with competitive fun, laughter, and a little friendly rivalry. If you’re looking for a great way to unwind after a long week, this is the place to be! I know I tend to go on and on about the Moose—it might sound like a broken record—but I can’t help it! I’ve finally found a place where I can truly be myself, and that’s a pretty amazing feeling. Whether that’s a good thing or a bad thing is up for debate, but what matters is that the Charlotte Moose feels like home to me. The welcoming atmosphere, the camaraderie, and the sense of community make it a special spot that I genuinely love. I’d love to invite you to come out and experience the magic of the Charlotte Moose for yourself! Let me sign you in, get you a drink, and show you ...

Lately, I've been feeling a bit down, and I wanted to take a moment to open up about it. You know that old saying, “Count your blessings”? I really try to live by that, but some days, it feels like an uphill battle. I look around and see all the good things in life, but then I can’t help but focus on what I don’t have. One of the hardest parts for me is the connection with my family. With both my mom and dad gone, it leaves a big hole in my heart. I’ve got two sisters, but our relationship isn’t strong, and it can be tough when I see others who have that close family bond. It often makes me feel more alone, and that’s when the sadness creeps in. I’m incredibly grateful for the wonderful people I’ve met at the Charlotte Moose. They’ve become like family to me, and their support means the world. But still, it’s just not the same as having my own family around. There’s a void that’s hard to fill, and I often find myself longing for those deeper connections. Another thing that weighs h...

Spring is officially here, but it feels like winter just can’t let go. As the calendar flips to March, we all start dreaming of warm breezes, blooming flowers, and sunny days. Yet, as we step outside, we’re often greeted with a chill in the air that reminds us winter is still hanging on. It’s frustrating, to say the least, especially when we’re so ready for that refreshing spring weather to take over. One of the reasons winter seems to be dragging its feet this year is the lingering cold air masses that refuse to budge. This time of year, the transition between winter and spring can be unpredictable, leading to those annoying cold snaps that keep us reaching for our heavy jackets. It’s as if winter is putting up a fight, trying to hold back the warmth that spring promises. Each sunny day feels like a tease, leaving us longing for more consistent temperatures that allow us to enjoy the outdoors without bundling up. As we wait for spring to fully arrive, it’s important to remember that t...

Monday has snuck its way back into our lives, and it’s time to kick off another work week. While the thought of diving back into the daily grind might not be the most exciting, there’s something refreshing about starting anew. This week, we’re gearing up for the end-of-year inventory, which, let’s be honest, is a mixed bag of fun and stress. It’s a necessary task that keeps us organized, but it can also feel a bit overwhelming as we scramble to get everything in order. On a positive note, there are still plenty of things to look forward to outside of work! After a long day, there’s always the opportunity to unwind down at the Charlotte Moose. It’s a great spot to relax, catch up with friends, and shake off the work week stress. Plus, Wednesday night brings our favorite event: DJ Trivia! It’s always a blast to test our knowledge, enjoy some friendly competition, and share a few laughs. These little moments give us a chance to connect with one another and make the work week a lot more en...

If you're looking for a way to connect with your community while making a positive impact, joining the Moose Fraternity could be the perfect opportunity for you. The Loyal Order of Moose, as it’s officially known, has a rich history dating back to its founding in 1888 in Mooseheart, Illinois. This organization is dedicated to providing support, fellowship, and charitable outreach to its members and the communities they serve. At its core, the Moose Fraternity operates under a mission that emphasizes charity and community service, primarily through its two flagship initiatives: Mooseheart and Moosehaven. Mooseheart is a residential childcare facility that provides a safe and nurturing environment for children who have lost one or both parents or come from difficult backgrounds. The facility not only offers a home but also focuses on education and personal development, ensuring that these children have a bright future ahead of them. On the other hand, Moosehaven is a retirement commu...

Good morning! It’s finally Friday, and let me tell you, the excitement is palpable! After a long week of work, I can almost hear the weekend calling my name like a siren song. It’s time to kick back, relax, and dive into some fun plans that I’ve got lined up for this evening. First on the agenda is a trip over to the Eagles, where my buddy Chuck is hosting his final fish fry. Now, if you’ve never been to one of Chuck’s fish fries, you’re missing out on a culinary experience that’s nothing short of legendary. Chuck has this magical ability to make fish so crispy and flavorful that you might just forget all about your New Year’s resolution to eat healthier. I mean, who can resist the allure of golden-brown fried fish? I can already picture myself devouring plate after plate, with a side of that secret tartar sauce that Chuck swears has been passed down through generations. I might need to bring a napkin—or a whole roll of paper towels, just to be safe! After I’ve gorged myself on Chuck’s...

This isn’t your usual blog post, but I felt it was important to share a warning for those who link their Facebook and Instagram accounts. With both platforms being owned by Meta and sharing the same system, there are risks involved that many users might not be aware of. If you have both accounts connected and something unusual happens—like a post on Instagram being flagged—there’s a real chance that your account could be disabled. Imagine waking up one day to find that your Instagram account has been suspended, only to realize that your Facebook account is also affected. This can happen because the two platforms are intertwined, and a violation on one can lead to consequences on the other. Trying to appeal their decision or reach a live support representative can be a frustrating experience, as many users have found out the hard way. I've heard of similar situations happening to others, and it serves as a reminder to be cautious about linking your accounts. While the convenience of...

As the calendar turns to March, we can finally say goodbye to the frigid winter days and welcome the arrival of spring. For many of us in Michigan, this season represents a time of renewal, blooming flowers, and longer daylight hours. However, as we eagerly anticipate the warm sunshine and vibrant colors, we can't help but remember that Michigan weather has a mind of its own. The beauty of spring is undeniable, with trees beginning to bud and gardens preparing to burst into life. Parks and trails beckon us to enjoy the great outdoors, and the sound of chirping birds fills the air. Yet, in true Michigan fashion, we often find ourselves experiencing a mix of sunshine, rain, and even the occasional surprise snow flurry. This unpredictability can be frustrating, but it also adds to the charm of living in the Great Lakes State. So, as we embrace the arrival of spring, let’s keep our spirits high and our jackets handy. We can enjoy the sunny days while being prepared for the chilly surpr...

Tomorrow, March 20, 2025, marks the first day of spring, a season that embodies renewal, hope, and transformation. As the world around us begins to awaken from the dormancy of winter, we are reminded of the beauty and potential that comes with change. Spring is not just a change in weather; it’s a powerful metaphor for our own lives, encouraging us to embrace fresh starts, set new goals, and adopt new perspectives. The arrival of spring invites us to reflect on our personal growth. Just as nature sheds its old leaves and blooms anew, we too can let go of past burdens and limitations that may have held us back. This season is an opportunity to reassess our aspirations, to dream bigger, and to cultivate a vision for our future. It’s a time to plant the seeds of our ambitions, nurturing them with care and intention. Whether it’s pursuing a new career path, starting a creative project, or focusing on personal well-being, spring encourages us to take that leap of faith and embrace the unkno...

As I settle into bed, I find myself reflecting on my love for writing random insights. Each night, as I pull the covers up and turn off the lights, I feel a sense of calm wash over me. Writing has become my personal sanctuary, a place where I can freely express my thoughts without the pressure of an audience. I don’t expect everyone to read my musings or react to them, and honestly, that’s perfectly okay. For me, the act of writing is therapeutic. It allows me to process my day, explore my feelings, and articulate ideas that swirl around in my mind. Whether it’s a fleeting thought about life, a quirky observation, or a deep reflection, putting pen to paper—or fingers to keyboard—helps me sort through the chaos. Each post is a small piece of my journey, shared in the hopes that it might resonate with someone, but also just for my own peace of mind. As I drift off to sleep, I’m grateful for this outlet. It’s not about the likes or comments; it’s about the release and the clarity that com...

Spring is on the way, bringing with it a sense of renewal and hope. Just as nature awakens from its winter slumber, we too can embrace this season as a time for growth and transformation in our lives. It's a reminder that change is possible and that we can shed the old to make way for new opportunities. As flowers bloom and trees regain their vibrant leaves, let’s take inspiration to nurture our own dreams and aspirations. Spring encourages us to step outside, breathe in the fresh air, and appreciate the beauty around us, reminding us that brighter days are ahead.

It’s quite fascinating how social media influences our lives, bringing both positive and negative effects. On one hand, these platforms allow us to connect with friends, share our experiences, and stay updated on the lives of those we care about. On the other hand, they can also create a sense of dependency that can lead to emotional turmoil when access is lost. Recently, I’ve been grappling with the stress of losing access to my favorite social app, where I had built a network of connections that felt like an extension of my social life. It’s hard to describe the feeling, but it’s almost like losing a part of myself. When we have access to our favorite social apps, life feels vibrant and full of possibilities. We share moments that matter, receive instant feedback, and feel like we belong to a larger community. The joy of scrolling through updates, liking posts, and messaging friends can make everyday life seem wonderful. However, when that access is suddenly taken away, the emotional...

Every day, I wake up to the same routine. I head to work, put in my hours, and come home, grateful for the stability but yearning for something more. I’ve come to realize that while I am thankful for all that I have, my heart aches for a fresh start, a chance to embrace new beginnings and rewrite my story. I long for a romantic relationship with that special someone, a partner who understands me and shares my dreams. I imagine the warmth of their embrace, the comfort in their words, and the joy of building a life together. It’s not just about having someone by my side; it’s about finding a soulmate who truly sees me and loves me for who I am. The thought of experiencing love in its purest form fills me with hope and excitement. My work life, too, feels like it’s stuck in a loop. I am grateful for my job, but I crave more. I dream of a new role where I can grow, learn, and make a meaningful impact. I want to wake up each morning with a sense of purpose, knowing that my work matters and ...