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Mother's Day: A Absence Is Profound

Here we are Mother's Day today, there's a familiar ache that resurfaces, a poignant reminder of the irreplaceable loss I experienced in 2010. It's a day that many celebrate with joy and gratitude, but for those of us who have lost our mothers, it can be a stark reminder of their absence. The world seems to buzz with tributes and celebrations, yet there's an empty space that no amount of festivity can fill.


The pain of losing a mother is a unique and profound sorrow. It's a loss that permeates every aspect of life, from the mundane to the monumental. The memories we shared, the lessons she taught, and the unconditional love she provided become both a source of comfort and a reminder of what we've lost. Mother's Day, in particular, amplifies these feelings, as the world collectively honors the women who shaped our lives.


Yet, even in the midst of grief, there's room for gratitude. I find solace in the memories of my mother, in the moments we shared, and in the knowledge that her love continues to guide me. While the pain of her absence remains, I choose to honor her memory by living a life that reflects her values and by cherishing the time I had with her. Mother's Day may be difficult, but it's also an opportunity to remember and celebrate the extraordinary woman who will forever hold a special place in my heart.

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